Tips for Parents: Hosting a Teen Party

So, your teenager wants to throw a party. You are probably nervous, and rightly so. By following a few simple steps you can help ensure that your child's party is safe and fun.

Make sure to clearly set rules with your child well in advance of the party, and to reiterate them in calm conversation on the day of the party.

1. Ask your child to share the guest list and party plans with you. Agree on a maximum number of guests.
2. Suggest changes to the guest list and party plans if necessary, but be tactful. A confrontational approach may lead your child to do things behind your back.
3. Set a specific time frame for the party. Stick to those hours.
4. Absolutely NO alcohol or drugs - remember it is illegal to serve alcohol or other drugs to minors, even in a private home, and you - the parents - are legally responsible for any illegal alcohol or drug consumption that occurs in your home.
5. Many of the new "club drugs" are easily concealed, so be mindful of "strange behavior" of any guests.
6. No smoking.
7. Leave the lights on.
8. Do not allow guests to leave the party and return later.
9. Do not allow guests to use rooms in your home that have been declared off limits.
10. Consider daytime parties as alternatives to nighttime parties. Provide a theme or activity: skating, swimming, renting a movie, bowling, etc.
11. Set ground rules that are clearly understood by both you and your child in advance.
12. Be clear that that you expect your child to set the example for her guests to follow.

And remember to enforce the rules that you set!