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Sexual assault: Integrity House RTC Helps Troubled Girls

By Better Health| Integrity House RTC

Summary

Sexual assault is any unwanted sexual behaviour or activity in troubled girls that makes the victim feel uncomfortable, frightened or threatened. Integrity House RTC treats troubled Girls that have suffered from sexual assault. Please call (866) 439-0355. Sexual assault is largely experienced by troubled girls and children, but also by men. Around half of all sexual assaults occur in the victim's home. Support services offer confidential counselling, advocacy and referral.Sexual assault is any unwanted sexual behaviour or activity that makes the victim feel uncomfortable, frightened or threatened. It is sexual activity that the person has not consented to and refers to a broad range of sexual behaviours, including the use or threat of violence to force another person to engage in a sexual activity against their will. Sexual assault is a serious crime, commonly committed by men against women and children. Approximately 25 per cent of Australian women will be sexually assaulted in their lifetimes. In most cases, the woman knows the perpetrator, with only 20 per cent of sexual assaults committed by strangers. Around half of all sexual assaults occur in the victim's home. A common misconception is that sexual assault is motivated by desire; on the contrary, it is about power and violence. Men are also victims of sexual assault, but less frequently. According to the Victorian Victims of Crime Survey held in 1998, a woman is 10 times more likely to be sexually assaulted than a man.

The emotional impact

Integrity House RTC offers the below information on emotional impact-

The terror, pain and humiliation suffered during a sexual assault can have dramatic short and long term consequences for the victim. The emotional effects may include

Fear, including fear of the offender.

Anxiety and depression.

Feelings of guilt, regret and self-blame.

Low self-esteem.

Broken trust in others.

Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) with symptoms including flashbacks, nightmares and withdrawal from people and situations.

Fear of men in general, especially if the victim is a woman.

The hidden crime

Sexual assault is vastly under-reported. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, of those women sexually assaulted in Victoria every year, only 15 per cent report the crime to the police. Of the 1,700 cases that made it to court, just 66 per cent led to a conviction. This means that, of all those committing sexual assaults in Victoria, less than five per cent face legal punishment. Women are more likely to report the crime to police if the offender is a stranger. Women are less likely to report current husbands, de facto partners or boyfriends.Reasons for under-reporting of sexual assault

Research shows that women don't report sexual assault to the police for a number of reasons, including:

Lack of faith in police and the justice system
The fear they won't be believed
Fear of coping with the medical and legal procedures
Fear of reprisals
They don't want family and friends to know
Humiliation and shame
Prevalent social attitudes, which blame the victim for sexual assault.

In 1992, the Victorian police - in conjunction with Centres Against Sexual Assault (CASA) - adopted new guidelines for dealing appropriately with people reporting sexual assault. This approach is outlined in the Victoria Police Code of Practice for Sexual Assault. Key aspects of the code include providing victims of sexual assault with information, choice and access to support and advocacy.

Physical evidence

If a woman reports a sexual assault to the police, she may be required to have a medical examination. A doctor who is a forensic medical officer will conduct this examination. Physical evidence of the crime is sometimes the only undisputed fact presented in court, so it may help not to shower, change clothes, eat, drink or go to the toilet before the examination. The examination may include:

General examination - to look for and treat any injuries, including cuts or bruises. Photographs may be taken of the injuries, but only with the victim's consent. Clothing may be retained for forensic testing.
Pelvic examination - similar to the procedure for a Pap smear.
Fluid samples - swabs will be taken and sent to a laboratory.

Medical attention

Whether or not a woman decides to report the crime to police, she should see a doctor to treat any injuries and check for pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. If pregnancy is suspected, the woman can take the 'morning after pill', which is available from chemists as well as doctors. Sexual assault is a deeply traumatic ordeal. There are support services available for victims that offer confidential counselling, advocacy and referral.

What to do

Someone who thinks they have been sexually assaulted recently, or in the past, can contact any of the services listed below. While the police and centres against sexual assault work cooperatively to respond to victims of sexual assault, the organisations operate separately. You can use the support services, even if you don't want to report a sexual assault to the police.

Where to get help

Your doctor
Police
In an emergency, call 000
CASA House Tel. (03) 9344 2210 or (03) 9349 1766 (after hours)
Sexual Assault Crisis Line (after hours) Tel. (03) 9349 1766 or 1800 806 292
Victim Referral and Assistance Service Tel. (03) 9603 9797 or 1800 819 817

Things to remember

Around 25 per cent of Australian women will be sexually assaulted in their lifetimes.
Around half of all sexual assaults occur in the victim's home and, in most cases, the woman knows the attacker.
Most women don't report sexual assault to the police because of fear, humiliation and shame.

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