Learning about Domestic Violence in Teens

I know hundreds of parents of troubled teens. Each and everyone of them are law abiding, caring, concerned parents. Many of them hold deep religious convictions, all of them know right from wrong and all of them have endeavored to teach their children values. What we all have in common is a society which fails us on many different levels as we struggle to raise our troubled children.

We can't get the most basic loopholes in our already weak gun control laws tightened. We can't get help from our Juvenile Justice departments until AFTER our children have been arrested, and more often than not our insurance companies will only pay for minimal counseling, if they cover psychiatric benefits at all. We have to hire lawyers or become experts in the legal field ourselves just to know what disciplinary measures we can take without CPS descending upon our homes and charging us with abuse or neglect. I can only imagine the reaction of the current administration if we asked for research dollars to be spent searching for the cause of the brain malfunctions which are most likely to be at the root of all these problems. No, our current administration is busily taking up the popular chant "Parents are just going to have to start teaching their kids some morals." Why? Because that way it's someone elses problem. No thought required, no tax dollars spent.

Even though it is often next to impossible to find the proper help or support when we know our teens have deep emotional problems, we are the lucky ones. We are the ones that caught the clue before it was entirely too late. Other parents are not so lucky. Even the most normal teen can lie and manipulate with ease. A teen with dark emotional problems can present a perfectly normal side which can fool parents and professionals alike. In an article titled "Inside the Columbine High Investigation" at Salon.com http://www.salon.com/news/feature/1999/0... Division Chief Kiekbusch is quoted as stating the following in regard to the teen shooters, Klebold and Harris;

The problem of teen violence is not generally caused by any one specific problem, but rather by any number of issues. The teen brain has not yet fully developed, their hormones often ride rough shod over their minds and bodies, they see and hear violence, perhaps they witnessed abuse, they become acquainted with hypocracy, drug/alcohol factors, perhaps they have a genetic predisposition for depression or behavior disorders. They may even have impulse-control disorder, a condition related to function in certain parts of the brain or in certain hormones, and possibly the abnormal transmission of nerve impulses. Symptoms of this disorder include the behaviors shown in the Columbine shooters. For more information on impulse-control disorder, check out the Discovery Health Channel page http://health.discovery.com/diseasesandc...

With more research, I'm sure we will find the common denominator in teen violence. I personally believe abnormal brain function will be the culprit that sets the stage for events to trigger violent behavior. To automatically blame the parents, however, is an unsound, knee jerk reaction which only clouds the true issues and gives society an easy scapegoat. Our job as concerned parents of troubled teens is to speak out and educate the public and our elected officials regarding the problems we face. Parents can only help solve the teen violence problem when we have the right tools.

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